Last month I received an email which contained photographs of how certain women got back at their cheating boyfriends and husbands. I wrote to the female friend who sent it and told her that if a man did those same things he would not only suffer public shame but would probably be charged with numerous offences. A short time later she sent me a link to a video of a 'staged' domestic violence event in a public place in England.
|R.P. BenDedek at Xishan (West Mountain) Suzhou, June 15, 2014|
The event which was enacted twice but in reversed roles, demonstrated that when people see a woman being physically or verbally abused by a man, they fly to her defense but when they see a woman physically or verbally abusing a man, they just laugh. The point of the video was to highlight domestic violence against men, which, according to the source, represents 40% of such violence. Other statistics put the violence rate at almost level.
I later came across a newspaper report of that event here and apparently "The video has been viewed over a million times on YouTube and is generating discussion on Twitter with the hashtag #ViolenceIsViolence". The video was created by DareLondon for the Mankind Initiative. The Newspaper report indicated that in Australia most victims of domestic violence are women, but the support for that position was typically (and negligently) biased.
The report also cited Greg Andresen, senior researcher with male domestic abuse support group One-In-Three, as saying that the video highlights two assumptions male abuse victims face: that they are probably at fault and that they should "man up" and take it.
I used the words 'typically biased' earlier because in fact society is biased against men. Men are always seen as abusers. It is part and parcel of the Cultural Marxist agenda in which Political Correctness plays an important role. This ideology constantly blames designated 'power' groups for every sort of evil in the world and there are many women who prey on both the orchestrated societal prejudice against men and the gullibility of society at large. The Australian government report mentioned above cites the 'statistics' of abuse, but in reality, abuse of men is far higher than will ever show up in government statistics. Male victims of domestic violence easily conceal their injuries within claims that they were hurt while playing football, or while out fishing, and as indicated below, even when the male is most certainly the victim, when police are called in, it is the male victim who stands accused.
A recent article provided information about a male drone hobbyist on the Connecticut shoreline in the USA who was physically assaulted by a woman who was identified as Andrea Mears, 23. She called the police and claimed that the man was a pervert and was taking photographs on the beach and uploading them. When police finally arrived Mears told them that she had been assaulted.
Perhaps she had good cause to complain about taking photographs and calling police might have been the right thing to do, but as so often happens, loud self-righteous voices preaching righteous causes have a tendency to promote their just causes through unrighteous means, resorting to lies and deception much more often than we probably realize.
The man that M/s Mears attacked had actually recorded the attack and after she told police that she had been assaulted, he showed the officers the video from his iPhone. He was released and she was arrested. This is just one example of how the victim is often painted as the perpetrator. There are many victims, both male and female, of female abuse and subsequent lies. I will come back to this in a moment.
Many years ago in Australia, I read a newspaper report of a teenage boy who made sexual allegations against a male teacher. The teacher was tried and convicted. His teaching qualifications were rescinded and his wife divorced him. As a pedophile, he was no longer allowed contact with his children. Eighteen months later in a different school, that same student accused another male teacher of sexual assault but this time it was proven that the boy lied. When police re-opened the investigation into the original complaint, they were able to determine and the boy subsequently admitted, that he had made the story up. Man-hating society preferred to believe the unsubstantiated complaint of a child because 'men' are a power group the Cultural Marxists insist that society must punish.
Recently a female child reported that she had been sexually molested by a strange man at her school. After the parents of students in that school had suffered the worry of this attack; after the school had spent a lot of money upgrading their security, and after a police artist had drawn the offender as per the child's description, it was discovered that the girl had made up the entire story. The report also stated that the child's parents did not initially report the incident. They apparently were not the type of people to jump the gun and so it is hard to believe that they had indoctrinated the child with fanciful 'anti-male' ideas. So where does a little girl come up with this type of idea? Who is teaching our children how to lie and make false sexual allegations?
Many years after leaving the Queensland Police Force I was talking to a part-time university student who was a serving member of the Police Force. During our conversation he told me that while it was not correct to do, many police, himself included, carried concealed tape-recorders to protect themselves from false accusations.
Given the aforementioned stories, I can't help but wonder if our 'man- hating' western society has so degenerated that it is now necessary for all men to protect themselves by carrying tape-recorders and/or video recording devices to record all their encounters with females and children.1
When a society is so biased against men that people, courts and police readily dispense with 'justice' and legal procedures in establishing the 'facts' of a matter, then I think it really is time for men to take such a drastic step.
False accusations against men are commonplace - and that is a fact. Men are easy targets. I know that this is true because for eight consecutive years at kingscalendar.com I published links to newspaper articles that reported the abuse perpetrated by females on the world at large. This year I have been so busy that I decided not to do a ninth edition. Whether it is just my perception or an actual fact, there seems this year to have been a jump in the frequency of female violence and false accusations. We have been so indoctrinated that if we do notice a report of female violence, we immediately ignore it because we have been well trained to believe that even if a woman is guilty - "it is not really her fault." When we read of male abuse however, it reinforces the truth that we have been taught to believe. (Below you can read the preamble to the 2013 edition.2)
Our societies, our minds and our beliefs have been hijacked by ideological agendas whose very real purpose is certainly not justice, righteousness, non-discrimination or tolerance. Their fundamental purpose is to destroy the current culture and replace it with the ideological culture. The agenda is actually one of 'hate' for real and perceived traditional western (read - 'Christian') culture and the activists who seek to wreak havoc on society in this pursuit care nothing for those who suffer from the fallout from their actions.
Perhaps we westerners have just become too fat on luxury to bother taking a good look at what is going on around us. Perhaps our western minds have just become so dulled by activism's constant finger pointing that we automatically believe everything that activist groups say. Perhaps many people are just suffering from (an imposed) "false guilt" for having had such easy and privileged lives, that they are willing to champion any 'apparent' victim's cause, all too gullibly believing anything that tugs at the heart strings and all too ignorant of the purpose in law of 'standard procedures' in the establishment of guilt or otherwise.
No matter the fundamental reason, the result is the same. Western people are now easily manipulated by anyone claiming to be a victim, and that is just where the Cultural Marxists want us to be in order to accomplish their goal of overthrowing our Judeo-Christian civilization and culture.
We cannot undo all the wrongs that have already been inflicted on our societies, but we can make a personal choice to stop acting like a dumb sheep being led along by 'would be' political masters. We have to stop judging right and wrong on the basis of "feelings," and start relying on solid facts. And if the facts are not that solid so that a matter can be determined beyond a reasonable doubt, then we must refrain from passing judgment.
The basis of the legal concept of 'beyond reasonable doubt' is the idea that it is better that a guilty man go free than an innocent man be punished. In today's world, that concept has been turned on its head and every man - and I use that language advisedly - is considered guilty until proven innocent.
The Bible in the book of Romans says that when people prefer lies over the truth, then their minds become truly incapable of making righteous judgments. No wonder so many 'just causes' use lies and deception to establish themselves.
1 When it comes to abuse in society, the really potent and unseen abuse is 'emotional abuse.' It is hard to recognize and even many of those suffering from it don't realize that they are actually being abused. Emotional abuse is always about control. The abuser 'needs' to have control over the abused. The abuser gains and reinforces their chosen self-identity through the acquiescence of the victim.
2 Preamble to the 2013 Edition on Female Abuse
We have been so indoctrinated into believing the worst of men, that we often don't notice that the worst characteristics of human nature are not restricted to one gender, but so indoctrinated are we that we tend to automatically think of women as innocent and men as guilty, for Example:
Sydney gang rape victim made it up
April 5, 2013
Police investigating the alleged gang rape of a teenage girl in Sydney's north west have found the incident never happened. The 17-year-old told police she was abducted by five men while walking home from a party in Baulkham Hills on March 3. Strike Force Mikkelsen was set up to investigate the crime but police revealed this morning the alleged incident "did not occur".
Four women 'sexually assault [rape] male teen'
April 9, 2013
Police in Canada are searching for four female suspects who reportedly raped a 19-year-old man in a parking lot.... But instead they drove to a parking lot a few blocks away, where all four of them sexually assaulted the man, police say.
Boy, 11, fathers child after sex with friend's mum
June 15, 2013
An 11-year-old Auckland boy fathered a child after having sex with a school friend's 36-year-old mother... The case has caused counselors working in the area of child sexual abuse to highlight the lack of attention given to women as potential offenders, reports the Weekend Herald... And it has also highlighted disparity in the law of rape, which makes it impossible for a woman to be accused of the crime.
|Xishan (West Mountain) Suzhou City Jiangsu Provence PRC|
Personally I think that the following link sums up in a nutshell what women really think about men.
Internet bride fails in bid for dumped husband's assets
February 13, 2013
A Russian internet bride has lost a court battle to claim a major stake in a Queensland businessman's financial assets, after abruptly walking out on their marriage once she secured residency in Australia... But the three-year marriage ended suddenly in 2009, with the Russian wife dumping him "within weeks" of the family [her children from previous marriage] getting their permanent visas, the court heard. Note: "Even if, and it is on the evidence a big 'if,' the husband's interest in the business... is worth something, then the wife's claim is well less than 35 percent," Mr. Baumann said. The constant Media and Feminist 'Anti-Male' agenda constantly paints women as nurturers and carers; loving through and through. Stories like the ones above and those below paint quite a different picture. We as a society tend to believe that all men are liars and all women are honest, but in this article we can see women lie just as easily as men.
The coup de Grace
Mothers making false child abuse claims: judge
July 6th 2013
A retiring NSW Family Court judge has claimed mothers are increasingly making false claims of child sexual abuse to stop fathers seeing their children. Justice David Collier, who is retiring from Parramatta Family Court, said he has seen both mothers and fathers play dirty in court but the worst in his opinion were mothers who falsely accused their former partners of abuse, the Sydney Morning Herald reports. "When you have heard the evidence, you realize that this is a person who's so determined to win that he or she will say anything," said Justice Collier, who has been a judge for 14 years and is retiring at the end of the month. "I'm satisfied that a number of people who have appeared before me have known that it is one of the ways of completely shutting husbands out of the child's life." Justice Collier said the court had to investigate all allegations of abuse, even those that were obviously fabricated. "They're difficult to disprove, the allegation lingers there," he said. Barrister Esther Lawson, a member of the NSW Bar Association family law committee, said there appeared to be an increase in allegations of sexual abuse coming through the courts but the reasons for the rise were unclear. Ms Lawson warned that making false accusations could backfire and result in a parent losing time with their child. Author: Alys Francis. Approving editor: Nick Pearson.