We all know that there are ugly women (and men) 'out there', but there is no woman more ugly than a violent one. We seem to be living in an ever increasing violent society, and one of the fallacies about that society is that violence is 'usually' or 'predominantly' perpetrated by males. This is simply not true but the 'truth' tends to interfere with certain political agendas of certain activist groups.
The fact is that women are not all sugar and spice and everything nice, and nor are they born inherently 'nurturing and caring'.
For the last six years on my own Website, I have been publishing (annual) files recording details in relation to news articles relating to Female Violence and I have been doing so because I believe that there is automatic sympathy for women when they make accusations against men and this sympathy is accompanied by a false belief that women are not capable of the same behaviour as men.
Last month Sept 15, 2011 A New York TV weathergirl admited that she had lied about being attacked by a stranger. Heidi Jones, 37, told the courts that she invented the lie because she was very frustrated and wanted sympathy.
In this case of course, there was apparently no 'victim' of her lie, but quite often there are victims of women's lies, and more importantly, victims of female violence.
In August 2011, a woman attacked her ex-boyfriend with a brick and a baseball bat and threatened him with a knife.
If you are a 'normal - modern' person, your immediate reaction to that announcement was that he probably deserved it. If that was your reaction, then you are 'guilty' of condoning violence.
When she appeared in court, the young woman blamed a declined credit card for a heated outburst in which she attacked her ex-boyfriend with a brick and a baseball bat and threatened him with a knife.
After she grabbed a baseball bat and began to attack the man, he fled into the house and locked himself in the bedroom. The WIMP ran away from the woman!
The woman apparently didn't like the fact that he hid away from her abuse, so she picked up a house brick and began banging on the door and when he tried to get out, she threw the brick at him. And then he tried to run away again. Whimp! Whimp! and double Whimp! He is nothing but a little bitty girl running away like that.
As this whimp tried to escape in his car, the woman tried to attack him with a knife.
Now what is missing in this tale?
Did the man hit the woman? Did he threaten her? Did he try to stand over her? No! He ran!
So now I ask you a question: How many men 'hide' - 'try to escape the room' - 'try to escape the residence' - during a period of physical or verbal abuse before finally physically or verbally defending themselves and thereafter find themselves being painted as a physically or verbally abusive male?
I used to work with a 6 foot-something giant of a man around whom one was careful to tread and not say a word out of place, but who on numerous occasions required medical treatment following his wife's physical abuse - and she was only 5ft tall.
How many women lie to gain sympathy after instigating a fight with their man? How many, after verbally abusing him; after physically attacking him; after trying to prevent him fleeing the abuse, finally get what they were looking for, and they get pushed, shoved, hit or screamed at - and then 'play the victim'?
I started the Violent Women Series after I noticed how many hits I got on a particular article I wrote about a violent mother, and I have over the years received a few emails from various researchers, thanking me for making it easy for them to research.
As I state on my website, I don't go looking for articles about violent women, I merely take note of them when I do find them in my daily (and usually Australian Newspaper) reading.
We live in a very lopsided world of politically correct positions which often bear no relationship with reality. I despise Politically Correct lies and the way activist groups and media deliberately distort the truth.
Women are as violent and sinful as men, and there are many people 'out there' whose life lived in abuse, was not lived being abused by males but by females.
We need to open our eyes to the truth and not fall for 'stereotyping' men in accordance with 'prejudiced' agendas of certain types of people.
As an indication of the types of articles and events I notice and publish at Kingscalendar on the topic of women not being the saints that they are painted to be by 'self-interest' groups, here are just a few of the latest links recorded in the 2011 News Articles About Violent Women file at Kingscalendar.
A TEENAGE girl has been charged after another teenage girl was allegedly stabbed in the head at a high school in Tara (Q'ld Aust)
A HIGH school principal was hospitalised after allegedly being beaten and stabbed by a student and his mother
Jennifer Lynn Hearn a Florida woman updated her Facebook status to "I love being single" days after she allegedly shot her husband and buried him in a pig pen
A California woman cut off her estranged husband's penis and ran it through a garbage disposal
A JEALOUS mother tried to procure an undercover policeman to bash her husband and then murder his pregnant girlfriend
A Melbourne woman and her lover planned the stabbing of her husband that took place as the husband and wife walked arm in arm down the street after celebrating the husband's 44th birthday
Sydney's shocking girl gangs (as young as 14) brawl it out in vicious prearranged brawls on video
In an age of high technology and super fast information transfer, we are able to hear about everything as it takes place around the world, but we make the mistake of believing that what we hear is always true. We forget sometimes that the Media have a vested interest in News Presentation and often that interest is far removed from presenting the unadulterated truth.
In a world of catchy political and humanitarian phrases, bleeding hearts, and compassionate concern for our fellow human beings, it is a sad thing indeed to realise our compassion is more often than not, directly proportional to the intensity of our personal and political agendas - at which point - 'Truth becomes irrelevant!'
R.P. BenDedek
Email: rpbendedek@hotmail.com
R.P.BenDedek (pseudonym) is the Author of 'The King's Calendar: The Secret of Qumran' (http://www.kingscalendar.com ), and is a guest columnist and stand-in Editor at Magic City Morning Star News. An Australian, he has been teaching Conversational English in China since 2003.
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